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Is Sex And Feeling Sexy Only For The Young?

   Posted by: jude   in Pappy and Nana

At one point in time I wanted to be the best and sexiest 50 year old I could be. What??? You young people must be thinking, no one is sexy at 50 except Madonna. Well, no way I could compete there nor would I try, but for me I did my best and I really did enjoy my 49th transition into 50. I felt fit and tan and I loved my silk suit, which I still have, but can’t wear any more and the longer this menopause hangs in there the worse I look, I peaked at 50 and it’s been downhill ever since. See recent Nana photos.

I have never been a dress up type person as I told you before I’m happiest in my jeans, but that didn’t mean I didn’t like pretty and wicked looking undies. When I was young, well up till 50 I did wear sexy lingerie because it made me feel good, but I really don’t think I would wear anything risque now, like the piece I still hold on to below. Oh, I’m sure Bill would love it, but I would feel very self conscious and feel like an idiot, my sexy lingerie days are over give me my flannel and cotton briefs. I didn’t say sex was over, sorry too much info?

At any rate I wouldn’t be able to get my big toe into that thing now. Some women tell me that going through menopause has made them feel sexier, I certainly wish I could say the same, but that’s not the case for me and that’s a shame because it’s just not fair to Bill, I will be so glad when menopause goes away. When I was young I just couldn’t imagine that old people still had sex, it was just too weird to think about, but now that I’m that older person it’s not hard to imagine any more.

Funny how your views change with age and besides experts tell us that sex is good for your health so I look forward to being healthy for at least 20 more years or longer.

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8 comments so far

 1 

I’ve often thought about this topic and wonder how I’ll be as I get older. It’s nice to hear an honest voice :)

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February 26th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
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lol. sex is not just for the young anyway, but i always feel kinda creepy when i think of old people having sex. sorry!

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February 26th, 2009 at 5:04 pm
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Without going into details, all I have to say is that when you can’t feel, don’t think about “it”, and stop looking at “buns”…..then you know you are DEAD!! Not dead yet at 64!

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February 26th, 2009 at 6:08 pm
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Sexy is a state of mind! I always crack up and I cannot be “sexy” like in lingerie and stuff. I don’t take myself seriously like that. I prefer to be romantic, but I cannot pull off the hot lingerie.

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February 26th, 2009 at 8:35 pm
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Interesting post. I am turning 30 soon and i consider myself old. Regarding with the topic about sex and feeling sexy, i guess its not just for young ones. I can see a lot of older women who are wearing sexy clothes. And i knew someone who’s sex life is very active when she gets older…

February 27th, 2009 at 2:50 am
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I have heard it quite often that when you age, sex gets better.
At 18, I thought it was great. At 28, I thought it was super. I cannot even imagine yet what it will be like at 50.
Enjoy!

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February 27th, 2009 at 3:31 am
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The lingerie is always the guy’s idea of being sexy, but it doesn’t work on the older, saggier, (slightly) larger model! It’s a bit of a joke. But sex and physical love don’t go away just because we are older and flabbier, they are just more loving.

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February 27th, 2009 at 3:50 am
gail webb
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my mother is 80 and she still looks amazing… (I am 55)
most people think she is my sister and she
refuses to get older! she is a widow and takes
and has always taken a lot of pride in the way
she looks….doesnt’ spend a lot on clothes…buys every season clothes that are
up to date and looks well groomed and so
young for her age! I know she still thinks of
sex, but we never discuss it… and know she
will be active again with the right man… as I
get older realise nothing wrong with it all as
long as she is happy and as she has always
said you are only as young as you feel!
you go girl….love you so much mum!

June 20th, 2010 at 8:03 am

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