Comments on: It Seems Like All I Do Is Whine About Something

By: Make a pound

Make a pound — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 13:20:46 +0000

Aww sorry to hear that its a terrible thing I lost my dad a year ago all so sudden but I guess that's life we just have to make the most of the time we have I hope that you get to see Ethan more often and remember that it might be hard for her to see you it might bring back memories so just be accommodating and i hope things work out ok. Make a pound’s last blog post..Universal phone chargers

By: mye

mye — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 12:21:23 +0000

hi jude - i have been silently lurking and reading your posts but for some reason, this time i know i have to say something to ease your pain. i know it is so hard to accept what had happened, it will be the only way for you to move on and fully recover. just always remember that your son is watching over you now. mye’s last blog post..Canon EOS 1000D

By: bigdaddyrichard

bigdaddyrichard — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 08:27:42 +0000

My own 4 kids are grown ups. They told me the same things your brat told you…they were never going to leave us…but I know deep in my heart that this will happen someday…that I will feel the same things you felt one of these days. Thanks for sharing your feelings!

By: Anna

Anna — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 06:14:33 +0000

Whine all you like my dear! You have every right to be down! As my mom would say, though..."Just don't wallow in it!" She'd say, whine, stomp your foot, let it out and then let it go. And you're right that everything happens for a reason and it's very hard to accept that we may never know the reason. Hang in there... Anna’s last blog post..Top Droppers for February!

By: Blog and SEO tips

Blog and SEO tips — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 21:34:21 +0000

lol people say that i whine playing video games Sometimes im not happy but…
And I can say that Americans know this word only. If something is wrong they say “stop whinning”.

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By: Lin

Lin — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 21:22:06 +0000

My Grandpa used to say “Don’t try to figure people out” which kinda drove me nuts, but I think he’s right. Who knows why your son left you and then came back–you just have to be glad that he did before he left for good. There has to be some relief in that on some level. Imagine if he didn’t?

Who knows why this girl married him, had his children……and what she is going through. I’m sure she’s confused on where to go, what to do. You can’t begin to figure it out. About all you can do is be supportive and friendly so that you don’t lose contact with the little ones.

Try not to see what makes her tick, but accept her for what she is (or isn’t) for the moment. Things happen for a reason, although we don’t always know why. Your son came back, didn’t he?

I’m sending a little squeeze because I think you need one today. Lots of changes going on…that’s hard. Hang in there, Jude.

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By: admin

admin — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 18:58:45 +0000

Hi Carole,
I know she has to return and take care of all the legal matter, but this will be her first time alone her Mother stayed with her after the funeral and she’s been staying in Lancaster with her Mother while here. I’m hoping by herself she will see just how lonely it will be there without him and return up here. Good to see you.

By: Carole

Carole — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 18:41:22 +0000

You are so refreshingly honest about your feelings, I love that about you. No BS here! I too am just feeling like it’s hard to have positive thoughts with this winter just dragging on. I love winter, but for crying out loud it’s March – we’re not supposed to have 8 inches of snow on the ground. So much for global warming. Anyway, try to think positive – maybe Eric’s wife will decide to stay, and maybe she’ll turn out to be a little gem – you never know sometimes.

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By: admin

admin — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 17:39:11 +0000

Thank-you Mamaflo I do my best to ease my pain and appreciate your kindness. Believe me I do try, but if she takes him back to Kentucky to grow up there wont be much I can do about seeing him since we’re so far away and I can’t afford to go down there all the time.

By: Mamaflo

Mamaflo — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 14:18:31 +0000

I’m sorry the pain in your heart is so tremendous, I can hear and feel it and my own heart goes out to you.
Your son has found peace, I hope you are able to do the same.
Keep trying with your DIL to see your grandson, maybe it will pay off, just remember that you get nowhere without trying.