There’s a situation I never really thought much about till recently because I have never really cared about why a person from one race and culture would prefer to marry and raise a family with someone from another. I can’t say it bothers me because I figure to each his own, not his own race, but his own life and happiness. Same sex marriage also doesn’t bother me, I don’t sit around condemning anyone for what makes them happy because it’s not my place.
I see a lot of unions between American men and Filipino women in my daily blog hopping and that got me to thinking. I found it strange that the first question in my mind was, “What in the world is wrong with Filipino men that so many Pinays prefer Americans?” I thought about that for a minute and realized I could very easily turn that around and ask, ” What in the world is wrong with American women that American men prefer someone from a foreign country?” So I Googled to see what would come up.
I found many interesting, enlightening articles at Helium. At least now my curiosity is satisfied and I can go back to not wondering about who marries who and for what reasons. I do feel the urge to apologize however to Filipino men for thinking there must be something wrong with you all before I even thought about other reasons for all those marriages, shame on me. Of course I didn’t have to tell you that was my first thought, but since I did I apologize.
Everyone has varied interests and a majority of the visitors here are younger women with children so when I visit their blogs I read about their children and their day to day live’s which I really enjoy. It’s nice to read about their problem solving and the activities that interest them. Others are older like myself and have already raised their families and blog about their grandchildren and their fears of aging and how they handle the problems they now face.
I enjoy reading about other people’s lives and I appreciate all the bloggers that so willingly share their emotions and life with the rest of us. We all blog for various reasons and for me it’s because it’s a great release to put my feelings down. I never really kept a journal or diary on a regular basis, but I had a calendar book that I would make small entries in and I love going back and rereading them and I do the same with this blog, it sometimes helps me.
I like sharing my life even if no one reads it, but me. It’s there for my family and friends if they want to know what’s going on with me and my state of mind at any given time. The activities in our life usually revolve around the weekends and we love to ride down to the river and watch the water and boats, it’s very relaxing. Children and families are all over the place fishing and having picnics, simply enjoying life and the surroundings, it’s a great way to unwind and appreciate nature and life.
As you know our lifestyle involves motorcycles and weekends are our time. We spend a lot of it going to swap meets and activities that involve motorcycle events. We’re always looking for something for the bike. It’s hard to find accessories for the trike and we wanted a bumper for it and one guy that builds the Champion trikes wanted 800 dollars for one because he fabricates them as needed, we decided we didn’t need one that bad.
Bill’s son is a welder and he decided he would make one for him so he took the dimensions needed and made us a small one which looks great and will look even better when we get it chromed. It didn’t need to be fancy and we are quite pleased with the way it turned out. I think we found a place around here that will chrome it so we don’t have to send it off and wait 6 weeks. Gettysburg bike week is coming up and I’d like to get feathers painted on the two back bumpers or small dream catchers.
Thanks for stopping by and sharing a part of my life.
We all know we will face death at some point in our life because that’s part of the cycle, but most people don’t like to think about it. Yesterday I think everyone received a shock when the news broke that Michael Jackson had died especially since he was only 50. Celebrities that are sick really don’t shock us when they pass like Farrah which was sad for those that loved her, but at least she isn’t suffering any more and Ed McMahon who lived a long good life, these were expected.
I think the death of Elvis probably shocked me more than any because of how the world viewed him and I never thought of him as ever dying. Regardless of how people thought of Jackson’s personal life and sometimes bizarre behavior it still came as a shock because it was unexpected. I watched the 20/20 special last night and actually felt sorry for him and the life he had led even though it was a privileged life he was pitiful. His music will live on and just like Elvis no one will ever take his place, their music was unique.
Celebrities like David Carradine that die under bizarre conditions do tend to shock and even appall some and leave you shaking your head thinking what in the hell were they thinking and at his age. I sure would hate to be remembered for some weird sexual act instead of the creativity and art that I had been involved with. Other actors and celebrities that have been killed by someone elses’ hand also shock us like John Lennon, Sal Mineo, Sharon Tate, George Reeves, Selena, Bob Crane, and many others.
We certainly don’t understand when celebrities commit suicide when they presumably have it all like Freddie Prinze, Marilyn Monroe, Allan Ladd, Nick Adams, Dave Garroway, Virginia Woolf, and even Sigmund Freud. These are only a few of a very long list and I wont even list those killed in plane crashes and other types of wrecks that have seemed so unreal and shocked us equally. The attempted suicides by celebrities is also staggering, I just don’t understand.
Ordinary people die all the time and they are just as important, but for some reason we are more upset and identify when it’s a celebrity because for some reason we feel like they belong to us just like family. Of course the media always milks it for all it’s worth depending on how popular they were. I’m saddened by Michael’s passing and feel very sorry for those he left behind and their grief. I am grateful that we all got to experience his talent and that will live forever for generations to come, have a peaceful weekend and enjoy what comes your way.
I certainly understand feeling down or detached and just being, drifting through parts of my life, experiencing beautiful parts as well as devastating events, but never would I consider ending all these experiences nor would I ever feel I had the right to deny someone else those experiences of being. Yesterday they reported another incident of a man losing his job and instead of making just a choice for himself he decided he needed to choose for his Sister as well, he killed her and then killed himself.
It was reported that this 54 year old man shared an apartment with his 49 year old sister and she was mentally challenged, but she worked at the York hospital in the food department and was very dependable, never missed a day since 2001 and was very friendly and outgoing. No one really knows why he did this, but noticed he had been depressed and unemployment was running out and he couldn’t find another job. He had been taking care of his sister for several years and maybe he thought she would be lost without him.
So tragic when we hear about these types of events, but this man had no right to end her life just because he was miserable. Stupid people, but it seems to be happening more and more some taking out their whole families, kids and all. It’s just not right for someone else to choose if you have the right to experience life or not. No wonder things don’t make sense to me sometimes. If someone is crazy enough to want to end their life then more power to them, but leave every frickin body else alone.
