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Another Murder Suicide In My Area

   Posted by: jude   in Mature Not Senile Misc

I certainly understand feeling down or detached and just being, drifting through parts of my life, experiencing beautiful parts as well as devastating events, but never would I consider ending all these experiences nor would I ever feel I had the right to deny someone else those experiences of being. Yesterday they reported another incident of a man losing his job and instead of making just a choice for himself he decided he needed to choose for his Sister as well, he killed her and then killed himself.

It was reported that this 54 year old man shared an apartment with his 49 year old sister and she was mentally challenged, but she worked at the York hospital in the food department and was very dependable, never missed a day since 2001 and was very friendly and outgoing. No one really knows why he did this, but noticed he had been depressed and unemployment was running out and he couldn’t find another job. He had been taking care of his sister for several years and maybe he thought she would be lost without him.

So tragic when we hear about these types of events, but this man had no right to end her life just because he was miserable. Stupid people, but it seems to be happening more and more some taking out their whole families, kids and all. It’s just not right for someone else to choose if you have the right to experience life or not. No wonder things don’t make sense to me sometimes. If someone is crazy enough to want to end their life then more power to them, but leave every frickin body else alone.

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20 comments so far

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AMEN, Jude! Couldn’t have said it better myself!

June 24th, 2009 at 6:51 pm
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AMEN, Jude! Couldn’t have said it better myself!

June 24th, 2009 at 6:51 pm
 3 

I totally agree with you. And, I don’t mean to be harsh but I don’t understand if you are at that point to commit suicide why take everyone else with you? I’ll never understand this. It happens way too often out here where I live.

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June 24th, 2009 at 7:33 pm
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I totally agree with you. And, I don’t mean to be harsh but I don’t understand if you are at that point to commit suicide why take everyone else with you? I’ll never understand this. It happens way too often out here where I live.

Joanne Olivieri’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday – The Gardens

June 24th, 2009 at 7:33 pm
 5 

Jude, I think he was just plain selfish and guilty. it’s still very sad. I pray for their souls.

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June 24th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
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Jude, I think he was just plain selfish and guilty. it’s still very sad. I pray for their souls.

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June 24th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
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So tragic when people can see no solution but death. And for his sister too. What can one do but pray that people can find hope and goodness again in their lives, and the strength to carry on until things improve.

Jan from BetterSpines’s last blog post..Some very wise words …

June 25th, 2009 at 1:03 am
 8 

So tragic when people can see no solution but death. And for his sister too. What can one do but pray that people can find hope and goodness again in their lives, and the strength to carry on until things improve.

Jan from BetterSpines’s last blog post..Some very wise words …

June 25th, 2009 at 1:03 am
 9 

This is so sad. The guy probably did think he was looking out for his sister and obviously was under a lot of pressure that he didn’t know how to handle. These types of news stories are very disturbing to me.

Karen, author of “My Funny Dad, Harry”’s last blog post..Why Wash Your Car?

June 25th, 2009 at 5:25 am
 10 

This is so sad. The guy probably did think he was looking out for his sister and obviously was under a lot of pressure that he didn’t know how to handle. These types of news stories are very disturbing to me.

Karen, author of “My Funny Dad, Harry”’s last blog post..Why Wash Your Car?

June 25th, 2009 at 5:25 am
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Yes he definitely doesn’t have the rights to take other’s life. It is indeed a sad news. In this bad time, more and more people need counseling and I hope they can get help in time to prevent such things from happening again.

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June 25th, 2009 at 6:08 am
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Yes he definitely doesn’t have the rights to take other’s life. It is indeed a sad news. In this bad time, more and more people need counseling and I hope they can get help in time to prevent such things from happening again.

BK’s last blog post..Wordless Wednesday: White Flower and Bee

June 25th, 2009 at 6:08 am
Sandy
 13 

What’s the responsibility of the folks who knew he was depressed and about to run out of benefits???

June 25th, 2009 at 11:14 am
Sandy
 14 

What’s the responsibility of the folks who knew he was depressed and about to run out of benefits???

June 25th, 2009 at 11:14 am
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 15 

Sandy the neighbor knew he was depressed and all of a sudden started talking about the bible and God and said he should have realized something was wrong, but how can anyone know when someone will snap and talking about God and the bible is suppose to be a sign of an unstable mind? I have no clue about the responsibility.

June 25th, 2009 at 12:50 pm
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Sandy the neighbor knew he was depressed and all of a sudden started talking about the bible and God and said he should have realized something was wrong, but how can anyone know when someone will snap and talking about God and the bible is suppose to be a sign of an unstable mind? I have no clue about the responsibility.

June 25th, 2009 at 12:50 pm
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These kind of articles really make me mad. Yes I suppose we should feel badly that this man was depressed and needed help; but who among us haven’t gone through difficult times? I suspect no one. It is selfish beyond anything I can think of. One does not have the right to take ones’s life. Life was given to us, it’s a gift. Selfish because you can’t face things, or won’t try to, there is help…sometimes all one has to do is ask. Suicide always seems like the cowards way out to me. If you kill yourself you leave everyone who knew you…friends, family, and coworkers feeling badly. What gives you the right to do that? So, then he adds to that a takes anothers life. Errrrrrrrrr

Two of my coworkers have neighbors who’ve committed suicide very recently. Now there are two families struggling emotionally, and financially. Suicide negates insurance, so these people have much to contend with.

Sandy

Sandy’s last blog post..Cayucos, California Coast Road heading North

June 25th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
 18 

These kind of articles really make me mad. Yes I suppose we should feel badly that this man was depressed and needed help; but who among us haven’t gone through difficult times? I suspect no one. It is selfish beyond anything I can think of. One does not have the right to take ones’s life. Life was given to us, it’s a gift. Selfish because you can’t face things, or won’t try to, there is help…sometimes all one has to do is ask. Suicide always seems like the cowards way out to me. If you kill yourself you leave everyone who knew you…friends, family, and coworkers feeling badly. What gives you the right to do that? So, then he adds to that a takes anothers life. Errrrrrrrrr

Two of my coworkers have neighbors who’ve committed suicide very recently. Now there are two families struggling emotionally, and financially. Suicide negates insurance, so these people have much to contend with.

Sandy

Sandy’s last blog post..Cayucos, California Coast Road heading North

June 25th, 2009 at 4:08 pm
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That seems to be the way now–take someone else with you. I wonder what changed in our society that so many do this now.

Lin’s last blog post..There’s a New Frog in Town and Other Thoughts

June 25th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
 20 

That seems to be the way now–take someone else with you. I wonder what changed in our society that so many do this now.

Lin’s last blog post..There’s a New Frog in Town and Other Thoughts

June 25th, 2009 at 8:59 pm

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