Comments on: Apology To Filipino Men http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/ Mon, 06 Feb 2012 16:56:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Melissa http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3085 Melissa Fri, 31 Jul 2009 15:22:23 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3085 I think I take a different view personally. As an American woman and in a failed marriage over 10years ago, and trying to date since, it isn't always stereotypical that we, women, are the issue in the relationship. Most men expect you to be as their mothers. They want their food and the household chores done. They expect it all without regard to our own feelings. After dating or successfully dating and thinking your relationship is going well, the American man tends to become lazy, indulgent, complacent and all around expects us to continue looking toned, energetic, doting on him and so on. It's disgusting. Do I say all American men are thus? No, just all the men I've had the unfortunate ability to fall for who at first sight seem great men. Can the same be said for any man in any culture? Damn straight. Can the same be said for any woman in any culture? Heck yes!! What it comes down to is you have trash in any race and any gender. But don't go around assuming all American women are as those posts in Helium (above link). It appears you only ever hear the negatives. Personally I'm just like the women the men look for, but by golly, if he wants a slave to his house, no I'm not and most women out there shouldn't be. It's his house too and he has an expectation to help in it. I think I take a different view personally. As an American woman and in a failed marriage over 10years ago, and trying to date since, it isn’t always stereotypical that we, women, are the issue in the relationship. Most men expect you to be as their mothers. They want their food and the household chores done. They expect it all without regard to our own feelings. After dating or successfully dating and thinking your relationship is going well, the American man tends to become lazy, indulgent, complacent and all around expects us to continue looking toned, energetic, doting on him and so on. It’s disgusting. Do I say all American men are thus? No, just all the men I’ve had the unfortunate ability to fall for who at first sight seem great men. Can the same be said for any man in any culture? Damn straight. Can the same be said for any woman in any culture? Heck yes!! What it comes down to is you have trash in any race and any gender. But don’t go around assuming all American women are as those posts in Helium (above link). It appears you only ever hear the negatives.

Personally I’m just like the women the men look for, but by golly, if he wants a slave to his house, no I’m not and most women out there shouldn’t be. It’s his house too and he has an expectation to help in it.

]]> By: Melissa http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3144 Melissa Fri, 31 Jul 2009 15:22:23 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3144 I think I take a different view personally. As an American woman and in a failed marriage over 10years ago, and trying to date since, it isn't always stereotypical that we, women, are the issue in the relationship. Most men expect you to be as their mothers. They want their food and the household chores done. They expect it all without regard to our own feelings. After dating or successfully dating and thinking your relationship is going well, the American man tends to become lazy, indulgent, complacent and all around expects us to continue looking toned, energetic, doting on him and so on. It's disgusting. Do I say all American men are thus? No, just all the men I've had the unfortunate ability to fall for who at first sight seem great men. Can the same be said for any man in any culture? Damn straight. Can the same be said for any woman in any culture? Heck yes!! What it comes down to is you have trash in any race and any gender. But don't go around assuming all American women are as those posts in Helium (above link). It appears you only ever hear the negatives. Personally I'm just like the women the men look for, but by golly, if he wants a slave to his house, no I'm not and most women out there shouldn't be. It's his house too and he has an expectation to help in it. I think I take a different view personally. As an American woman and in a failed marriage over 10years ago, and trying to date since, it isn’t always stereotypical that we, women, are the issue in the relationship. Most men expect you to be as their mothers. They want their food and the household chores done. They expect it all without regard to our own feelings. After dating or successfully dating and thinking your relationship is going well, the American man tends to become lazy, indulgent, complacent and all around expects us to continue looking toned, energetic, doting on him and so on. It’s disgusting. Do I say all American men are thus? No, just all the men I’ve had the unfortunate ability to fall for who at first sight seem great men. Can the same be said for any man in any culture? Damn straight. Can the same be said for any woman in any culture? Heck yes!! What it comes down to is you have trash in any race and any gender. But don’t go around assuming all American women are as those posts in Helium (above link). It appears you only ever hear the negatives.

Personally I’m just like the women the men look for, but by golly, if he wants a slave to his house, no I’m not and most women out there shouldn’t be. It’s his house too and he has an expectation to help in it.

]]> By: Jenera http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3084 Jenera Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:43:34 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3084 I have wondered this very same thing through my blog hopping. Though I don't care either who marries who, I wonder why I haven't seen more blogs of men married to other nationalities. Maybe it's just skewed by folks using entrecard. Good post. <abbr><em>Jenera’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/nGox/~3/pZNRo3q_rfQ/flipping-off-world.html" rel="nofollow">Flipping Off The World</a></abbr></em> I have wondered this very same thing through my blog hopping. Though I don’t care either who marries who, I wonder why I haven’t seen more blogs of men married to other nationalities. Maybe it’s just skewed by folks using entrecard. Good post.

Jenera’s last blog post..Flipping Off The World

]]> By: Jenera http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3143 Jenera Wed, 01 Jul 2009 20:43:34 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3143 I have wondered this very same thing through my blog hopping. Though I don't care either who marries who, I wonder why I haven't seen more blogs of men married to other nationalities. Maybe it's just skewed by folks using entrecard. Good post. <abbr><em>Jenera’s last blog post..<a href="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/blogspot/nGox/~3/pZNRo3q_rfQ/flipping-off-world.html" rel="nofollow">Flipping Off The World</a></abbr></em> I have wondered this very same thing through my blog hopping. Though I don’t care either who marries who, I wonder why I haven’t seen more blogs of men married to other nationalities. Maybe it’s just skewed by folks using entrecard. Good post.

Jenera’s last blog post..Flipping Off The World

]]> By: Allure http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3083 Allure Wed, 01 Jul 2009 09:17:14 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3083 I apologize also but I must honestly say that the US gives lots of opportunities for Filipinas. Filipinas wanted to be secured with their financial status. Pinays want the greencard. If the Filipino is in the US, they are like honey for Pinays here in the Phils. Life here in Manila is hard and may women want the easy way out and that is to marry a foreigner. But there is always an exception for what I said, of course. <abbr><em>Allure’s last blog post..<a href="http://www.alluricious.com/2009/05/i-am-home.html" rel="nofollow">I Am Home</a></abbr></em> I apologize also but I must honestly say that the US gives lots of opportunities for Filipinas. Filipinas wanted to be secured with their financial status. Pinays want the greencard. If the Filipino is in the US, they are like honey for Pinays here in the Phils. Life here in Manila is hard and may women want the easy way out and that is to marry a foreigner. But there is always an exception for what I said, of course.

Allure’s last blog post..I Am Home

]]> By: Allure http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3142 Allure Wed, 01 Jul 2009 09:17:14 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3142 I apologize also but I must honestly say that the US gives lots of opportunities for Filipinas. Filipinas wanted to be secured with their financial status. Pinays want the greencard. If the Filipino is in the US, they are like honey for Pinays here in the Phils. Life here in Manila is hard and may women want the easy way out and that is to marry a foreigner. But there is always an exception for what I said, of course. <abbr><em>Allure’s last blog post..<a href="http://www.alluricious.com/2009/05/i-am-home.html" rel="nofollow">I Am Home</a></abbr></em> I apologize also but I must honestly say that the US gives lots of opportunities for Filipinas. Filipinas wanted to be secured with their financial status. Pinays want the greencard. If the Filipino is in the US, they are like honey for Pinays here in the Phils. Life here in Manila is hard and may women want the easy way out and that is to marry a foreigner. But there is always an exception for what I said, of course.

Allure’s last blog post..I Am Home

]]> By: admin http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3082 admin Wed, 01 Jul 2009 03:01:50 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3082 I really appreciate your comments and thanks so much for your insight Bingkee I really appreciate your comments and thanks so much for your insight Bingkee

]]> By: admin http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3141 admin Wed, 01 Jul 2009 03:01:50 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3141 I really appreciate your comments and thanks so much for your insight Bingkee I really appreciate your comments and thanks so much for your insight Bingkee

]]> By: bingkee http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3081 bingkee Wed, 01 Jul 2009 02:34:29 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3081 Actually, it's the Filipino society that makes Filipino men undesirable. I am Filipina, and I had been involved with Filipino men before I married my American husband. I'm not saying all Filipino men are all the "undesirable". Most Filipino men have the this attitude that because they're men, they can do anything. And because they're the head of the house and family, there's nothing wrong if they womanize---because they're men. And that men should have the final approval in every decision in the household. According to my hubby and other American men married to women of other nationalities, I heard and read that American women are so independent, and too bent on to fight for their equality rights in the family--that American women demand so much and expect too much from men. Just because they're women, they expect that they should be treated with all privileges . Well, that's only what I heard and read----those are not my opinions. Actually, it’s the Filipino society that makes Filipino men undesirable. I am Filipina, and I had been involved with Filipino men before I married my American husband. I’m not saying all Filipino men are all the “undesirable”. Most Filipino men have the this attitude that because they’re men, they can do anything. And because they’re the head of the house and family, there’s nothing wrong if they womanize—because they’re men. And that men should have the final approval in every decision in the household.
According to my hubby and other American men married to women of other nationalities, I heard and read that American women are so independent, and too bent on to fight for their equality rights in the family–that American women demand so much and expect too much from men. Just because they’re women, they expect that they should be treated with all privileges . Well, that’s only what I heard and read—-those are not my opinions.

]]> By: bingkee http://jude8753.com/2009/06/30/apology-to-filipino-men/#comment-3140 bingkee Wed, 01 Jul 2009 02:34:29 +0000 http://jude8753.com/?p=1853#comment-3140 Actually, it's the Filipino society that makes Filipino men undesirable. I am Filipina, and I had been involved with Filipino men before I married my American husband. I'm not saying all Filipino men are all the "undesirable". Most Filipino men have the this attitude that because they're men, they can do anything. And because they're the head of the house and family, there's nothing wrong if they womanize---because they're men. And that men should have the final approval in every decision in the household. According to my hubby and other American men married to women of other nationalities, I heard and read that American women are so independent, and too bent on to fight for their equality rights in the family--that American women demand so much and expect too much from men. Just because they're women, they expect that they should be treated with all privileges . Well, that's only what I heard and read----those are not my opinions. Actually, it’s the Filipino society that makes Filipino men undesirable. I am Filipina, and I had been involved with Filipino men before I married my American husband. I’m not saying all Filipino men are all the “undesirable”. Most Filipino men have the this attitude that because they’re men, they can do anything. And because they’re the head of the house and family, there’s nothing wrong if they womanize—because they’re men. And that men should have the final approval in every decision in the household.
According to my hubby and other American men married to women of other nationalities, I heard and read that American women are so independent, and too bent on to fight for their equality rights in the family–that American women demand so much and expect too much from men. Just because they’re women, they expect that they should be treated with all privileges . Well, that’s only what I heard and read—-those are not my opinions.

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