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I Don't Have A Fan Mentality

   Posted by: jude   in Mature Not Senile Misc

I feel saddened for all of us that are left behind when a loved one dies regardless of celebrity because we all grieve and suffer a tremendous loss. The nameless young men and women who lose their lives daily fighting for our country breaks my heart more so than the passing of any celebrity ever could. I don’t mean that in a cold way, I just don’t understand why some deaths are given more importance than others.

I didn’t watch the MJ memorial service yesterday, but caught a few of the highlights on the news and the saddest part was when his daughter spoke and it made me shed a couple of tears. I was reminded of my Mother’s passing and even though she wasn’t famous she was the most important person in the world to me.

I liked his music and didn’t judge his personal life same as Elvis. I never saw either one in concert although I’m sure it would have been great from everything I’ve heard. Actually I don’t recall ever buying any of their records or CD’s either. I would never make a pilgrimage to either of their homes although millions have, it’s just not on my list of things to do.

I had the chance to meet and shake hands with Bill Medley and Bobby Hatfield at a charity event in Reno back in the 80′s and I did buy their records and CD’s and I was a fan. I didn’t act all stupid when I met them even though they were my singing idols because they’re just people the same as all the rest of us. I can’t think of any celebrity that would make me act weird.

I would probably have gotten a few butterflies in my stomach if I had ever been face to face with Paul Newman back in his heyday, but hopefully I would have kept my composure and just admired his beautiful blue eyes. I don’t think I’m a very good fan because I’m just not that supportive and idolizing even though I might really appreciate their talent.

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22 comments so far

 1 

I dropped by, and had to comment as I discussed the same topic as you. I was a little to the right on this one at first – but, as you related to the death of a parent….

I believe this is what captured my heart as well.

Tiffany’s last blog post..Dance With My Father……

July 8th, 2009 at 8:34 pm
 2 

I dropped by, and had to comment as I discussed the same topic as you. I was a little to the right on this one at first – but, as you related to the death of a parent….

I believe this is what captured my heart as well.

Tiffany’s last blog post..Dance With My Father……

July 8th, 2009 at 8:34 pm
 3 

I use to have a Fan Mentality when I was a teenager. I use to go crazy over certain singers and groups.

I don’t really have the time to go ga-ga over any celebrity now. I’m a fan of my family more than anything.

I also watched the highlights and saw MJ’s daughter’s speech. I feel really saddened most for his children. They are so young to lose their Dad who was such an important part of their lives.

July 8th, 2009 at 10:24 pm
 4 

I use to have a Fan Mentality when I was a teenager. I use to go crazy over certain singers and groups.

I don’t really have the time to go ga-ga over any celebrity now. I’m a fan of my family more than anything.

I also watched the highlights and saw MJ’s daughter’s speech. I feel really saddened most for his children. They are so young to lose their Dad who was such an important part of their lives.

July 8th, 2009 at 10:24 pm
 5 

I loved the Jackson 5 when I was a kid, but that was the extent of it. He had a ground-breaking talent and his death has caused a huge loss to his family and the music world. I just wasn’t a fanatic.

Now, Paul Newman…there was a man! I cried when he died not only because he was a really talented actor but because he was a great humanitarian.

Anna’s last blog post..Have To Remember This

July 9th, 2009 at 12:47 am
 6 

I loved the Jackson 5 when I was a kid, but that was the extent of it. He had a ground-breaking talent and his death has caused a huge loss to his family and the music world. I just wasn’t a fanatic.

Now, Paul Newman…there was a man! I cried when he died not only because he was a really talented actor but because he was a great humanitarian.

Anna’s last blog post..Have To Remember This

July 9th, 2009 at 12:47 am
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I am not fanatical either. The way the media has publicized and played up Michael Jackson’s death, you’d think he was a President! Every person is important and every death is sad. Personally, between Michael Jackson and Farah Fawcett, I feel sadder about Farah Fawcett.

Karen, author of “My Funny Dad, Harry”’s last blog post..A Sad Fourth Of July–Striper Was So Much Fun!

July 9th, 2009 at 6:18 am
 8 

I am not fanatical either. The way the media has publicized and played up Michael Jackson’s death, you’d think he was a President! Every person is important and every death is sad. Personally, between Michael Jackson and Farah Fawcett, I feel sadder about Farah Fawcett.

Karen, author of “My Funny Dad, Harry”’s last blog post..A Sad Fourth Of July–Striper Was So Much Fun!

July 9th, 2009 at 6:18 am
 9 

I definitely agree that the media blew up mj dying way too much. It was all that was on TV for a week now.

The saddest part of all is he was pretty much treated as a joke the last years of his life. Then he dies and everyone loves him again…

Aimey’s last blog post..Home!!!!

July 9th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
 10 

I definitely agree that the media blew up mj dying way too much. It was all that was on TV for a week now.

The saddest part of all is he was pretty much treated as a joke the last years of his life. Then he dies and everyone loves him again…

Aimey’s last blog post..Home!!!!

July 9th, 2009 at 3:29 pm
 11 

I think you are the best kind of fan there is. I bet celebrities would admire fans who don’t try to grab or run after them every time they are around

grace’s last blog post..Women Were Not Allowed in the Ancient Olympics

July 10th, 2009 at 12:03 am
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I think you are the best kind of fan there is. I bet celebrities would admire fans who don’t try to grab or run after them every time they are around

grace’s last blog post..Women Were Not Allowed in the Ancient Olympics

July 10th, 2009 at 12:03 am
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I agree all people are important and their death hurts their friends and family. I did not like MJ or his music and am dismayed by the number of people forgetting that he really wasn’t a good person, not a nice man. I’m applaud by his actions, and even more that he got away with them. I did not watch, but from what I’ve seen and read here on the net etc, he was given was too much attention in both life and death. He wasn’t the President, he didn’t cure cancer, he didn’t built hospital or schools to help those in need, and he wasn’t Paul Newman. Paul Newman was famous, but lead a quiet life; a family life and did lots of good with the money he made, starting so many companies that donate huge huge sums of money to help children everywhere attend camps. I do feel badly for his children; but think the media must have forgotten that there were other things going on in the world people would like to have known about.

I also feel for the people in the city where the funeral took place, the huge cost to them in paying for security, seems inappropriate they have to pay that with tax dollars, when he himself avoided paying his taxes…something wrong with that picture for sure.

TGIF, have a good one Jud

Sandy’s last blog post..Favorite Places

July 10th, 2009 at 9:07 am
 14 

I agree all people are important and their death hurts their friends and family. I did not like MJ or his music and am dismayed by the number of people forgetting that he really wasn’t a good person, not a nice man. I’m applaud by his actions, and even more that he got away with them. I did not watch, but from what I’ve seen and read here on the net etc, he was given was too much attention in both life and death. He wasn’t the President, he didn’t cure cancer, he didn’t built hospital or schools to help those in need, and he wasn’t Paul Newman. Paul Newman was famous, but lead a quiet life; a family life and did lots of good with the money he made, starting so many companies that donate huge huge sums of money to help children everywhere attend camps. I do feel badly for his children; but think the media must have forgotten that there were other things going on in the world people would like to have known about.

I also feel for the people in the city where the funeral took place, the huge cost to them in paying for security, seems inappropriate they have to pay that with tax dollars, when he himself avoided paying his taxes…something wrong with that picture for sure.

TGIF, have a good one Jud

Sandy’s last blog post..Favorite Places

July 10th, 2009 at 9:07 am
 15 

oophs forgot (it’s that maturity thing again, lol) popped into remind you about your award.
Sandy

Sandy’s last blog post..Favorite Places

July 10th, 2009 at 9:09 am
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oophs forgot (it’s that maturity thing again, lol) popped into remind you about your award.
Sandy

Sandy’s last blog post..Favorite Places

July 10th, 2009 at 9:09 am
 17 

I’ve never been “crazy” over any musicians. I’ve bought less than 20 CDs in my whole life. Nysnc, Backstreet boys, Destinys Child, Mariah Carey, Alicia Keys, BeWitched, and Now 10. Yup I remember each one I bought.

When Paris gave her speech in front of thousands that day I think she really put MJ in perspective for me and for millions of others. He was a talented musician, an icon, the King of Pop. But to Paris he was her dad. I’m ashamed to say that I had forgotten about that part.

Tellie’s last blog post..How to be a horrible roommmate

July 11th, 2009 at 12:53 am
 18 

I’ve never been “crazy” over any musicians. I’ve bought less than 20 CDs in my whole life. Nysnc, Backstreet boys, Destinys Child, Mariah Carey, Alicia Keys, BeWitched, and Now 10. Yup I remember each one I bought.

When Paris gave her speech in front of thousands that day I think she really put MJ in perspective for me and for millions of others. He was a talented musician, an icon, the King of Pop. But to Paris he was her dad. I’m ashamed to say that I had forgotten about that part.

Tellie’s last blog post..How to be a horrible roommmate

July 11th, 2009 at 12:53 am
 19 

As you Know A death of a Love one is so hard on us. I am on vacation in the west so Did not see the MJ Service. I really feel for the children left behind. they have a long life ahead of them and I pray their fathers death will not effect them in a negative way. i think about Elvis daughter and see how she has developed into a great Adult. Hoping the same for MJ children.

AuntieE’s last blog post..The Mines of Colorado

July 12th, 2009 at 10:14 am
 20 

As you Know A death of a Love one is so hard on us. I am on vacation in the west so Did not see the MJ Service. I really feel for the children left behind. they have a long life ahead of them and I pray their fathers death will not effect them in a negative way. i think about Elvis daughter and see how she has developed into a great Adult. Hoping the same for MJ children.

AuntieE’s last blog post..The Mines of Colorado

July 12th, 2009 at 10:14 am
 21 

Just dropping by to say Hi. Entrecard is down so I wanted you to know I stopped by. have a great day:-)

AuntieE’s last blog post..WW#16- A Rare Sighting

July 15th, 2009 at 10:37 am
 22 

Just dropping by to say Hi. Entrecard is down so I wanted you to know I stopped by. have a great day:-)

AuntieE’s last blog post..WW#16- A Rare Sighting

July 15th, 2009 at 10:37 am

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