If it weren’t for current events what would people have to talk about other than the weather, children, grandkids and gossiping about other people and even then there is only so much one can say. We know pretty much everything there is to know about our family and our mate and we’ve probably heard the same stories over and over and even told our stories over and over. There’s really only so much any one person can say before it all becomes a repeat. That’s why I always hated family reunions unless they were every 10 years because then I’d have new events to talk about instead of rehashing all the old stuff.

I’m also not good with reruns or watching a movie over and over unless I haven’t seen it for 10 years. Some people live to talk and are never without words. When I was young we talked about our current boyfriend, clothes, makeup, sex, school and our dreams of the future now we talk about all the dorks we dated and married, all the mistakes we made, dreams that never became realities, children and grandchildren and all of our sickness and illnesses. I’ve never been a great conversationalist because I was really never good at chit chat, but I was usually a good listener and often encouraged the other person to talk so I didn’t have to.

I also prefer being the visitor instead of the visitee, yes I know that’s not a word. I like visiting for a half hour or so catching up on the kids’ news and watching the grandkids play and mess up their house and then leaving when I want. I don’t mind visitors, but I never know how to entertain them or what to say to them so I usually happily leave it all up to Bill to entertain and just sit back and listen, usually if they stay longer than an hour then I’m ready to pull my hair out. I’m getting really cranky in my old age apparently, but I can only be pleasant for so long then I need quiet. For the longest I’ve blamed everything on menopause now I need to find another excuse.

We’re going for a nice peaceful, cold ride with no chit chat so I’ll wish a nice Sunday for you all.

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I can relate to this. My husband is an amazing conversationalist. He’s the kind of guy that can strike up a conversation with a stranger while in line at the store. I lack this ability, so when I need to “chit chat” it takes a lot of effort, but I have gotten much better over time. I guess living with an extrovert is starting to wear off on me.
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October 25th, 2009 at 2:16 pm
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My husband is in sales so he talks for a living. It’s never a problem for him. I am not so verbose as him. Though i do love to talk on blogs!
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October 25th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
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I talk a lot more on my blog than I do in real life. I am a good listener. I worry that my friends will eventually find out I don’t add much to the conversation.
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October 25th, 2009 at 7:41 pm
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I can relate to this too, only I don’t have a husband to shift the weight of the conversation to. I like to go visit, even drive alone there so that I can exit when I need to. If people stop in here, I get nervous and worry about how long they’ll stay. So, I blog!
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October 25th, 2009 at 8:08 pm
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You’re doing a great job here though, always coming up with something new to say.
Either you have a very interesting life, or you do know how to pick a topic for a conversationg very well.
I can only say, keep on going, because we’re all enjoying your chit chat.
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October 25th, 2009 at 11:17 pm
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I love having visitors. That is I love that they want to come and see me, and I enjoy most of the visit. But I always breathe a sigh of relief when they’ve gone.

I love visiting your blog too, and finding out what you have to say. Thanks for sharing so many of your thoughts.
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October 26th, 2009 at 8:50 am
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I think before tv, cell phones, and the net people did talk about more than family. In fact, historically I don’t think they talked about family. People were very private, kept things close to the vest. (found this out doing genealogy and all the things people didn’t know about their own families) They did talk about current events. Talking is how news spread from one community to another. They told stories/yarns that were carried from one generation to another; they didn’t fill the air with noise. Sometimes I think people think they have to talk, they have to fill the air with noise. Many people are uncomfortable with quiet. Hubby and I hardly ever turn on the radio when we’re in the car. Even on long car trips we chat, off and on; but we don’t have the music blaring constantly. We don’t have that need.

I am one that easily strikes up a conversation with a stranger in line. I tend to be a person people tell rather personal things to. Conversation comes easily to me; but I also really enjoy quiet time, alone time. I rarely have the sound on while on the computer. I don’t turn on tv for background…white noise. My house is generally quiet.

Most people say I’m an extrovert; but I enjoy quiet and alone time more than many extroverts I know.

Sandy
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October 26th, 2009 at 9:39 am
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sometimes a nice ride in the country enjoying the scenery requires no chit chat to be wonderful. have a great day…hugz!
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October 26th, 2009 at 9:46 am
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There is nothing as fun as when all my cousins gather. We can sit and tell those same old stories for hours on end. The stories have changed a little over the years but they haven’t lost the charm of childhood.
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October 26th, 2009 at 9:46 am

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