If it weren’t for current events what would people have to talk about other than the weather, children, grandkids and gossiping about other people and even then there is only so much one can say. We know pretty much everything there is to know about our family and our mate and we’ve probably heard the same stories over and over and even told our stories over and over. There’s really only so much any one person can say before it all becomes a repeat. That’s why I always hated family reunions unless they were every 10 years because then I’d have new events to talk about instead of rehashing all the old stuff.
I’m also not good with reruns or watching a movie over and over unless I haven’t seen it for 10 years. Some people live to talk and are never without words. When I was young we talked about our current boyfriend, clothes, makeup, sex, school and our dreams of the future now we talk about all the dorks we dated and married, all the mistakes we made, dreams that never became realities, children and grandchildren and all of our sickness and illnesses. I’ve never been a great conversationalist because I was really never good at chit chat, but I was usually a good listener and often encouraged the other person to talk so I didn’t have to.
I also prefer being the visitor instead of the visitee, yes I know that’s not a word. I like visiting for a half hour or so catching up on the kids’ news and watching the grandkids play and mess up their house and then leaving when I want. I don’t mind visitors, but I never know how to entertain them or what to say to them so I usually happily leave it all up to Bill to entertain and just sit back and listen, usually if they stay longer than an hour then I’m ready to pull my hair out. I’m getting really cranky in my old age apparently, but I can only be pleasant for so long then I need quiet. For the longest I’ve blamed everything on menopause now I need to find another excuse.
We’re going for a nice peaceful, cold ride with no chit chat so I’ll wish a nice Sunday for you all.


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