7
Jan

Pet Grief/Our New Companion Obie

   Posted by: jude   in Mature Not Senile Pets

The three of us, Bill, Sadie, and myself were moping, crying. and depressed since the reality set in on the 27th that Shadow was actually gone. We were with him when he said his final good-bye and it was very hard.

Sadie was lost and going from room to room looking for him and sniffing. I’m sure she also felt our depression which didn’t help matters and when she got sick on January 1st of course her vet was closed same as Shadow at Christmas.

I will never understand why pets get sick when their regular vets are closed for the holidays and you have to take your beloved animals to the only emergency animal hospital that is open. How they get away with jacking up their prices I’ll never know and make you pay half before they even look at them.

In Shadow’s case it was too late, but we had to arrange a private cremation with them because we wanted his ashes. Our vet would have charged around 80 dollars, but they charged 200. It took 9 days to get them back, but at least I feel better having them with me.

In Sadie’s case we ended up paying over 600 dollars, but thankfully she seems to be doing okay and they couldn’t even find anything wrong with her. No other dog could ever take Shadows place, but that doesn’t mean we can’t love another.

We were all so lost that we decided to get a puppy just to take our mind away from our baby. The minute I laid eyes on Shadow when he was 7 weeks old I fell in love and it only got stronger. We checked several places and Bill decided on the little guy below and I agreed. I’m glad he doesn’t look like my Shadow though.

We named him Obie and he’s a nice little guy and believe me a big mind distraction for all of us. Trying to potty train him in this cold is driving me nuts though, but keeping me occupied. He loves Sadie and she tolerates him. We bought him a little jacket because it’s just too cold outside.

He’s already growing on us and I try not to compare him with my Shadow because he has his own little personality. Since he wont get any bigger than 18 pounds if we don’t over feed him he will be a lot easier to take care of since we are getting older and we can even take him with us on the trike. Of course we need goggles and a carrier for Obie.

Our New Companion Obie/4 months/9 pounds

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32 comments so far

 1 

What a sweet little face Obie has! You’re right, no other puppy can take the place of one we have lost, but it’s good that you’ve opened your heart to a new friend and family member. Shadow would be proud. :-D

January 7th, 2010 at 2:49 pm
 2 

What a sweet little face Obie has! You’re right, no other puppy can take the place of one we have lost, but it’s good that you’ve opened your heart to a new friend and family member. Shadow would be proud. :-D

January 7th, 2010 at 2:49 pm
 3 

Oh, Jude, you can never replace one pet with another! They are little individuals like we are–each with their own personalities and capacities to love. I’m big on bringing in another kitty when we lose ours–not because I’m trying to replace them, but because our hearts are so big that they are busting at the seams to love again. We have too much room here, too many sunny windows, and too many warm laps here to allow a little kitty to sit in a shelter for one more day. And I think my kitty angels lead me to a good one to take home.

So, when you are sad, think that Shadow sent you to Obie to love. Shadow didn’t like to see you and your family sad, maybe he just whispered in your ear to go love again. I like to think so.

Give Obie a big smoochie from me. Give him a squeeze knowing that love is alive in your heart and that it didn’t break completely when you lost Eric or Shadow. Love grows, my friend, and it heals.
.-= Lin´s last blog ..I-love-Hobbes Thursday =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 3:47 pm
 4 

Oh, Jude, you can never replace one pet with another! They are little individuals like we are–each with their own personalities and capacities to love. I’m big on bringing in another kitty when we lose ours–not because I’m trying to replace them, but because our hearts are so big that they are busting at the seams to love again. We have too much room here, too many sunny windows, and too many warm laps here to allow a little kitty to sit in a shelter for one more day. And I think my kitty angels lead me to a good one to take home.

So, when you are sad, think that Shadow sent you to Obie to love. Shadow didn’t like to see you and your family sad, maybe he just whispered in your ear to go love again. I like to think so.

Give Obie a big smoochie from me. Give him a squeeze knowing that love is alive in your heart and that it didn’t break completely when you lost Eric or Shadow. Love grows, my friend, and it heals.
.-= Lin´s last blog ..I-love-Hobbes Thursday =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 3:47 pm
 5 

I hope that works out well for you all. I know many people do exactly what you did. Often I’ve read how people should wait until they’ve gone through the grieve process before deciding to obtain another pet. I’m sure what works for one doesn’t necessarily work for another. There is no right or wrong way to experience grief.

Training in this kind of weather surely makes it harder, good luck

sandy
.-= sandy´s last blog ..Desert Botanical Gardens, Phoenix Arizona =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 5:03 pm
 6 

I hope that works out well for you all. I know many people do exactly what you did. Often I’ve read how people should wait until they’ve gone through the grieve process before deciding to obtain another pet. I’m sure what works for one doesn’t necessarily work for another. There is no right or wrong way to experience grief.

Training in this kind of weather surely makes it harder, good luck

sandy
.-= sandy´s last blog ..Desert Botanical Gardens, Phoenix Arizona =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 5:03 pm
 7 

We had to take our cat to the emergency clinic a few months ago for a severe broken leg. They charged us $250 just to sedate him for pain and tell us to go to our vet the next day. He ended up getting his leg amputated. It does seem like highway robbery though.

Enjoy your new baby! He is adorable.
.-= KellieS´s last blog ..Detox Your Body Continued =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 6:18 pm
 8 

We had to take our cat to the emergency clinic a few months ago for a severe broken leg. They charged us $250 just to sedate him for pain and tell us to go to our vet the next day. He ended up getting his leg amputated. It does seem like highway robbery though.

Enjoy your new baby! He is adorable.
.-= KellieS´s last blog ..Detox Your Body Continued =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 6:18 pm
 9 

I know what you mean about not being able to replace a beloved pet. When my chocolate lab Molly had to be put down at 13 I was lost without her. I knew there would never be another dog just like her but I needed to find one that could at least fill the emptiness.
Obie looks just like my Duke when he was a pup. He’s adorable.
.-= ann´s last blog ..Desperate Plea =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 6:53 pm
 10 

I know what you mean about not being able to replace a beloved pet. When my chocolate lab Molly had to be put down at 13 I was lost without her. I knew there would never be another dog just like her but I needed to find one that could at least fill the emptiness.
Obie looks just like my Duke when he was a pup. He’s adorable.
.-= ann´s last blog ..Desperate Plea =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 6:53 pm
 11 

Hi Jude,
Wishing you both lots of happiness with Obie. I like his little jacket. I do feel sorry for our animals during the winter time, because we keep them outside. We have a dog and 3 cats.
.-= Robin´s last blog ..Tips for Increasing Fiber Intake =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 7:35 pm
 12 

Hi Jude,
Wishing you both lots of happiness with Obie. I like his little jacket. I do feel sorry for our animals during the winter time, because we keep them outside. We have a dog and 3 cats.
.-= Robin´s last blog ..Tips for Increasing Fiber Intake =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 7:35 pm
 13 

What a cutie Obie is! I am sure he will be a wonderful addition to your family. You will never forget the ones you lost. It is good to enjoy and love a new little guy.
.-= Karen´s last blog ..Snow in Branson =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 8:59 pm
 14 

What a cutie Obie is! I am sure he will be a wonderful addition to your family. You will never forget the ones you lost. It is good to enjoy and love a new little guy.
.-= Karen´s last blog ..Snow in Branson =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 8:59 pm
 15 

So sorry to hear about your loss, but happy you already have a new companion. I bet Obie will look great in goggles!

Thank you also for casting a vote in my favor!
.-= Lynn´s last blog ..Shining the Giveaway Spotlight =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 11:29 pm
 16 

So sorry to hear about your loss, but happy you already have a new companion. I bet Obie will look great in goggles!

Thank you also for casting a vote in my favor!
.-= Lynn´s last blog ..Shining the Giveaway Spotlight =-.

January 7th, 2010 at 11:29 pm
 17 

Well he is just adorable

January 7th, 2010 at 11:47 pm
 18 

Well he is just adorable

January 7th, 2010 at 11:47 pm
 19 

What a little cutie pie! He doesn’t have to be a replacement just a new sweetie to love. New puppies are so much fun and soooo much work! Enjoy every smile he brings to you.
.-= Buggys´s last blog ..We Have A Winner! =-.

January 8th, 2010 at 12:15 am
 20 

What a little cutie pie! He doesn’t have to be a replacement just a new sweetie to love. New puppies are so much fun and soooo much work! Enjoy every smile he brings to you.
.-= Buggys´s last blog ..We Have A Winner! =-.

January 8th, 2010 at 12:15 am
 21 

Oh Jude, Obie is adorable! I love that little coat on him, how cute!

I understand what you are going through. I love these two silly corgis to death, but I still cry almost every day because I miss our Pudgy so gosh darn much. :(
.-= Storm´s last blog ..I’ll Tell You How To Loose Weight… =-.

January 8th, 2010 at 2:58 am
 22 

Oh Jude, Obie is adorable! I love that little coat on him, how cute!

I understand what you are going through. I love these two silly corgis to death, but I still cry almost every day because I miss our Pudgy so gosh darn much. :(
.-= Storm´s last blog ..I’ll Tell You How To Loose Weight… =-.

January 8th, 2010 at 2:58 am
 23 

Awww!! Cute!
.-= Anna´s last blog ..New Hair Cut =-.

January 8th, 2010 at 12:41 pm
 24 

Awww!! Cute!
.-= Anna´s last blog ..New Hair Cut =-.

January 8th, 2010 at 12:41 pm
 25 

I’m so sorry about Shadow. Losing a pet is the worst, especially when they’re like one of your kids. When my pekingese died back in 2002, I started going to the shelter looking for another dog shortly thereafter. My sister thought I was horrible for wanting to replace her so soon, but I didn’t see it that way. Like you, I wanted another dog to take my mind off of Prissy, who died right at my feet. I didn’t want to replace her, just move on. When I finally adopted Bella, she had so many weird personality quirks in common with Prissy that sometimes I wonder if she was Prissy reincarnated or at least if that was Prissy’s way of saying it was okay.

Anyway, I guess what I’m trying to say in a long-winded way is that, while your new furbaby will never replace Shadow, I know he’s going to bring you lots of joy and healing, the way Bella did for me.

He’s also absolutely adorable.
.-= Staci´s last blog ..Flat Ass Fridays: Take Cover, Arizona =-.

January 9th, 2010 at 12:56 am
 26 

I’m so sorry about Shadow. Losing a pet is the worst, especially when they’re like one of your kids. When my pekingese died back in 2002, I started going to the shelter looking for another dog shortly thereafter. My sister thought I was horrible for wanting to replace her so soon, but I didn’t see it that way. Like you, I wanted another dog to take my mind off of Prissy, who died right at my feet. I didn’t want to replace her, just move on. When I finally adopted Bella, she had so many weird personality quirks in common with Prissy that sometimes I wonder if she was Prissy reincarnated or at least if that was Prissy’s way of saying it was okay.

Anyway, I guess what I’m trying to say in a long-winded way is that, while your new furbaby will never replace Shadow, I know he’s going to bring you lots of joy and healing, the way Bella did for me.

He’s also absolutely adorable.
.-= Staci´s last blog ..Flat Ass Fridays: Take Cover, Arizona =-.

January 9th, 2010 at 12:56 am
 27 

He is so cute!
So sorry to hear of Shadow passing…so sad, we love our furry children so much. No they can never be replaced, but having another little furry baby helps.
.-= Rebecca´s last blog ..Her Name Is Bella… =-.

January 10th, 2010 at 5:30 pm
 28 

He is so cute!
So sorry to hear of Shadow passing…so sad, we love our furry children so much. No they can never be replaced, but having another little furry baby helps.
.-= Rebecca´s last blog ..Her Name Is Bella… =-.

January 10th, 2010 at 5:30 pm
 29 

Sorry to hear about Shadow. You are right, “No other dog could ever take Shadows place, but that doesn’t mean we can’t love another.” And Shadow will never be far, Shadow will always live in your heart.
.-= BK´s last blog ..Success by Bessie Anderson Stanley 1904 =-.

January 11th, 2010 at 8:06 am
 30 

Sorry to hear about Shadow. You are right, “No other dog could ever take Shadows place, but that doesn’t mean we can’t love another.” And Shadow will never be far, Shadow will always live in your heart.
.-= BK´s last blog ..Success by Bessie Anderson Stanley 1904 =-.

January 11th, 2010 at 8:06 am
 31 

OMG Jude! We lost our Coconut on New Year’s Eve and had to go to an Emergency Vet, too. I’m so so sorry for you. You’re braver than we are: I just can’t get another dog right now. I’m so so sad. I’m so glad I stopped by. Hugs to you, and many many new memories with this adorable new little Obie!! xoxoxoxoxox
.-= Carol´s last blog ..~Just Fawnie and Me~ =-.

January 26th, 2010 at 7:32 pm
 32 

OMG Jude! We lost our Coconut on New Year’s Eve and had to go to an Emergency Vet, too. I’m so so sorry for you. You’re braver than we are: I just can’t get another dog right now. I’m so so sad. I’m so glad I stopped by. Hugs to you, and many many new memories with this adorable new little Obie!! xoxoxoxoxox
.-= Carol´s last blog ..~Just Fawnie and Me~ =-.

January 26th, 2010 at 7:32 pm

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