13
Jan

Responsible Pet Owners/ Commandments

   Posted by: jude   in Home and Family

There’s a commercial on TV that I have to walk away from every time it comes on with those poor little animals that have been abused. I honestly can’t see how anyone can watch it and not cry, it’s heartbreaking. No, I’m not going to rant about abuse or all those poor babies that get euthanized because no one wants them or they can’t be rehabilitated.

When I was looking for information about the little Westie Bill picked out to join our family I ran across the ten commandments for responsible pet owners. The author is unknown so I can’t give due credit, but I felt like posting it here. Thinking and reflecting about my Shadow they really made me cry. I miss my Shadow with all my heart and numbers 9, 10, and 11 really got to me. I’m trying to give Obie a good, happy, structured home and I’ll no doubt post updates as he grows.

Obie
Obie, My Westie

The Commandments For a Responsible Pet Owner

  1. My life is likely to last 10 to 15 years. Any separation from you will be very painful.
  2. Give me time to understand what you want of me.
  3. Place your trust in me, it is crucial for my well-being.
  4. Don’t be angry with me for too long, and don’t lock me up as punishment.
  5. You have your work, your friends, your entertainment. I have only YOU.
  6. Talk to me. Even if I don’t understand your words, I understand your voice when it’s speaking to me.
  7. Be aware that however you treat me, I’ll never forget it.
  8. Before you hit me, remember that I have teeth that could easily crush the bones in your hand, but I choose not to.
  9. Before you scold me for being lazy or uncooperative, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I’m not getting the right food, I’ve been out in the sun too long, and my heart may be getting old and weak.
  10. Take care of me when I get old. You, too, will grow old.
  11. Go with me on difficult journeys. Never say, “I can’t bear to watch it”, or, “Let it happen in my absence.” Everything is easier for me if you are there. Remember, I Love You!

Author Unknown

Original with Author credit

The 10 Commandments From a Pet’s Point of View

  • My life is likely to last 10-15 years, any separation from you will be painful for me. Remember that before you buy me.
  • Give me time to understand what you want from me, don’t be impatient, short-tempered, or irritable.
  • Place your trust in me and I will always trust you back. Respect is earned not given as an inalieable right.
  • Don’t be angry with me for long and don’t lock me up as punishment, I am not capable of understanding why? I only know I have been rejected, you have your work entertainment and friends I only have you.
  • Talk to me sometimes, even if I don’t understand your words I understand your voice and your tone, “you only have to look at my tail”.
  • Be aware that however you treat me I’ll never forget it, and if it’s cruel it may affect me forever.
  • Please don’t hit me I can’t hit back, but I can bite and scratch and I really don’t ever want to do that.
  • Before you scold me for being uncooperative, obstinate, or lazy, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I’m not getting the right foods or I’ve been out in the sun too long, or my heart is getting old and weak, I may be just dog tired.
  • Take care of me when I get old. You too will grow old and may also need love, care, comfort, and attention.
  • Go with me on difficult journeys, never say, “I can’t bear to watch” or “Let it happen in my absence”. Everything is easier for me if you are there. Remember, irrespective of what you do I will always love you.
  • © Stan Rawlinson 1993
    Dog Behaviourist and Obedience Trainer
    www.doglistener.co.uk
    0208 979 2019
    I changed this slightly from my initial 1993 poem
    this is the final draft version 1998
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24 comments so far

 1 

I think I know what commercial you are talking about. I can’t bear to see any animal hurt or dying, even in a movie. :(
.-= Storm´s last blog ..Thrift Store Tuesday Is Here! =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 1:28 am
 2 

I think I know what commercial you are talking about. I can’t bear to see any animal hurt or dying, even in a movie. :(
.-= Storm´s last blog ..Thrift Store Tuesday Is Here! =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 1:28 am
 3 

Those ASPCA and Humane Society commercials get me every time! I want to take them all home with me!

Those commandments are great and I completely understand how you were emotional over the last ones. Our furbaby, Sadie, will be 9 this summer (that’s 57 to you and me) and she’s really hobbling with arthritis already. It breaks my heart to see her struggle, but she is by far the best dog I have ever had and she has seen me through some of the worst times in my life! I cannot think of our life without her.
.-= Anna´s last blog ..Our Frozen World =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 3:21 am
 4 

Those ASPCA and Humane Society commercials get me every time! I want to take them all home with me!

Those commandments are great and I completely understand how you were emotional over the last ones. Our furbaby, Sadie, will be 9 this summer (that’s 57 to you and me) and she’s really hobbling with arthritis already. It breaks my heart to see her struggle, but she is by far the best dog I have ever had and she has seen me through some of the worst times in my life! I cannot think of our life without her.
.-= Anna´s last blog ..Our Frozen World =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 3:21 am
 5 

Such commandments are very touching. I felt guilty about my past pets. I have never been sensitive of their needs.
.-= Walter´s last blog ..The essence of giving =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 7:43 am
 6 

Such commandments are very touching. I felt guilty about my past pets. I have never been sensitive of their needs.
.-= Walter´s last blog ..The essence of giving =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 7:43 am
 7 

These ten commandments should surely be shared for all people who own pets. They should know their responsibility even before deciding to have any pet.
.-= BK´s last blog ..Reunited at The Rainbow Bridge =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 9:23 am
 8 

These ten commandments should surely be shared for all people who own pets. They should know their responsibility even before deciding to have any pet.
.-= BK´s last blog ..Reunited at The Rainbow Bridge =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 9:23 am
 9 

I agree these are on point and people should be made to understand these points prior to having a pet in their lives.
.-= Buggys´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 10:23 am
 10 

I agree these are on point and people should be made to understand these points prior to having a pet in their lives.
.-= Buggys´s last blog ..Wordless Wednesday =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 10:23 am
 11 

i too get a huge lump in my throat every time that commercial comes on, and the song they chose to go with it, my my. very good commandments, wish everyone would follow those.

have a wonderful day my friend…hugz!
.-= PJ´s last blog ..Smart Ass! =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 12:44 pm
 12 

i too get a huge lump in my throat every time that commercial comes on, and the song they chose to go with it, my my. very good commandments, wish everyone would follow those.

have a wonderful day my friend…hugz!
.-= PJ´s last blog ..Smart Ass! =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 12:44 pm
 13 

There are a few commandants I’d like to add to the list, and give a copy to each of my neighbors.

Don’t buy me as a status symbol
Don’t let me be a nuisance to your neighbors cause you’re too busy and really don’t care about me cause you bought me as a status symbol
Don’t dress me in dumb clothes just because I can’t fight it or pick things for myself, I am NOT a person, I am an animal and deserve to be respected as such….unless you’re going to dress like a dog or cat

I don’t know which commercial you’re referring to, but imagine it’s like the ones I’ve seen where children are mistreated or trafficed….it’s bothersome. I guess though, that’s how they call attention to a problem?
.-= sandy´s last blog ..Sedona, Arizona =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 12:59 pm
 14 

There are a few commandants I’d like to add to the list, and give a copy to each of my neighbors.

Don’t buy me as a status symbol
Don’t let me be a nuisance to your neighbors cause you’re too busy and really don’t care about me cause you bought me as a status symbol
Don’t dress me in dumb clothes just because I can’t fight it or pick things for myself, I am NOT a person, I am an animal and deserve to be respected as such….unless you’re going to dress like a dog or cat

I don’t know which commercial you’re referring to, but imagine it’s like the ones I’ve seen where children are mistreated or trafficed….it’s bothersome. I guess though, that’s how they call attention to a problem?
.-= sandy´s last blog ..Sedona, Arizona =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 12:59 pm
 15 

Thanks so much for sharing this. I found it very touching. In my opinion a dog is probably the only thing I know that is really capable of unconditional love. Humans may come close, especially when it comes to our kids but I think that dogs have us beat.
.-= ann´s last blog ..Duke day =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
 16 

Thanks so much for sharing this. I found it very touching. In my opinion a dog is probably the only thing I know that is really capable of unconditional love. Humans may come close, especially when it comes to our kids but I think that dogs have us beat.
.-= ann´s last blog ..Duke day =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
 17 

Great job on those commandments. I am not a pet person but was still great for me to see your point of view.
.-= Lynn´s last blog ..MidWeek @ Midday Escapades #10 =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 11:46 pm
 18 

Great job on those commandments. I am not a pet person but was still great for me to see your point of view.
.-= Lynn´s last blog ..MidWeek @ Midday Escapades #10 =-.

January 13th, 2010 at 11:46 pm
 19 

I can’t watch those commercials either. Breaks my heart.
It took me a while to abide by the commandments, though I never saw them before. I just learned the hard way. I wish I had seen them 30 years ago. I’ve never really mistreated a pet, but I have become better over the years. Now I’m at Georgia’s beck and call. As it should be.
Thanks,
GregoryJ
.-= GregoryJ´s last blog ..‘Thank God Thursday’ =-.

January 14th, 2010 at 10:17 am
 20 

I can’t watch those commercials either. Breaks my heart.
It took me a while to abide by the commandments, though I never saw them before. I just learned the hard way. I wish I had seen them 30 years ago. I’ve never really mistreated a pet, but I have become better over the years. Now I’m at Georgia’s beck and call. As it should be.
Thanks,
GregoryJ
.-= GregoryJ´s last blog ..‘Thank God Thursday’ =-.

January 14th, 2010 at 10:17 am
 21 

Obie is adorable. I’m sure you’ll be a wonderful family for him! I always put my animals’ needs ahead of my own. Most people don’t understand that but I am so connected to them I cannot do otherwise. Thank you for advertising on my blog today. Have a wonderful day!
.-= Brenda @ Split Rock Ranch´s last blog ..WW =-.

January 14th, 2010 at 10:59 am
 22 

Obie is adorable. I’m sure you’ll be a wonderful family for him! I always put my animals’ needs ahead of my own. Most people don’t understand that but I am so connected to them I cannot do otherwise. Thank you for advertising on my blog today. Have a wonderful day!
.-= Brenda @ Split Rock Ranch´s last blog ..WW =-.

January 14th, 2010 at 10:59 am
 23 

Hi

I notice you have the ten commandments on your website it does not credit the author. It has also been slightly modified from my original therefore could you copy from my original.

I wrote this in 1993 http://www.doglistener.co.uk/humour/commandments.shtml I have no problem whatsoever with you using it, but can you please follow my requirements for its use. I want no money just the credit and link back to my site. Thank you. And best wishes for a happy and prosperous 2010

This is confirmation I am the author

http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&rlz=1T4GGLG_enGB315GB315&q=the+ten+commandments+for+dogs+stan+rawlinson&start=0&sa=N

Please confirm by e mail that I have been credited

Kind regards

Stan Rawlinson MTCBPT.MPAACT
Doglistener
Behaviourist and Obedience Trainer
H 0208 979 2019
M 07976 153161
enquiries@doglistener.co.uk
http://www.doglistener.co.uk

Founder Member and Chairman of PAACT
The Professional Association of Applied Canine Trainers
http://www.paact.co.uk

January 27th, 2010 at 5:27 am
 24 

Hi

I notice you have the ten commandments on your website it does not credit the author. It has also been slightly modified from my original therefore could you copy from my original.

I wrote this in 1993 http://www.doglistener.co.uk/humour/commandments.shtml I have no problem whatsoever with you using it, but can you please follow my requirements for its use. I want no money just the credit and link back to my site. Thank you. And best wishes for a happy and prosperous 2010

This is confirmation I am the author

http://www.google.co.uk/search?hl=en&rlz=1T4GGLG_enGB315GB315&q=the+ten+commandments+for+dogs+stan+rawlinson&start=0&sa=N

Please confirm by e mail that I have been credited

Kind regards

Stan Rawlinson MTCBPT.MPAACT
Doglistener
Behaviourist and Obedience Trainer
H 0208 979 2019
M 07976 153161
enquiries@doglistener.co.uk
http://www.doglistener.co.uk

Founder Member and Chairman of PAACT
The Professional Association of Applied Canine Trainers
http://www.paact.co.uk

January 27th, 2010 at 5:27 am

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